I finally sold my condo! Actually, its been sold for over a month now, but the whole process of getting it ready, cleaning my place, has not only been time-consuming, but tiring. I remember now why I loathe moving so passionately, its exhaustive and draining. After a lot of thinking, I decided not to rent, but to buy again. It’s a bit of a kink in my plans, but it felt like the right thing to do. Renting just didn’t seem right.
I have no idea right now where I’m moving to. That’s been an interesting experience. Unlike the States, the market is hot right now in Toronto so the pickings are slim. I had put in an offer on a new place, meaning it hasn’t been registered with the city, but its built and getting occupied. That turned into a bit of a fiasco if I don’t say so myself. So, I’m putting in an offer on another place (at the same new building cause I haven’t completely learned my lesson) this week that will hopefully go a hell of a lot smoother than the last offer I put in.
My real estate agent is a pretty good guy, a little slow for my liking, but a good guy. He’s a referral from a co-worker and so far he’s saved my ass….on the first offer I made that turned into a mess. I have looked at about 30 – 40 places so far, maybe more I’ve lost count over the past two months. Some of the places I’ve seen are spotless and then there were some I saw that were completely disgusting. Only a handful have wowed me enough to consider putting in an offer. And, even then, I have only put in one offer.
I haven’t even consulted movers yet because I’m not sure when I’m moving and where to. Hopefully I’ll have that figured out this week because I’m starting to get antsy thinking I may have to stay with my parents for the interim. That…would…not….be…..good.
Anyways, my life is consumed with this move and until I get it done and over with, I really can’t move forward. And, I really need to move forward. So, here’s to me starting fresh….somewhere…..soon.
In a month it’ll be Christmas. I can’t believe it’s that time already. The malls are getting busy and the days are getting shorter.
I met with a real estate agent finally and I decided to put my place on the market after the New Year. It just seemed like the right timing. I’m not in the mood to have people coming to see my place during the holiday season. It just seems so disruptive. I have one last repair to do, which is not really a repair, and some paint touch-up (if I can just find the matching colour that would be helpful). The hole in the ceiling of my bathroom and the leaking are a thing of the past. When I look at the ceiling now you’d never know that there was a hole there.
I’m not sure what my living situation will be once I sell my place. Of course I can certainly live at my parents place, gasp!, or my father’s investment home, but being super independent, I’m leaning more towards renting something temporarily or buying a smaller place that will sell easily when I need to. I need to be easily mobile, so don’t know if I want to be burden again with a mortgage, but we’ll see. I have a lot to decide in the next couple of months.
On a completely different note – my best guy’s father passed away recently. And, that has put a lot of things in perspective for him. We were talking about life and regrets and to never have any. He’s realizing he wants to make some changes in his life. Funny how death gives you moments of clarity. Actually, it’s not funny, but it is interesting how that happens. Sometimes we live life without much thought. I think its good to be woken-up from the slumber, not that I think it’s a good thing his father passed away, but hopefully with his father’s passing he’ll live life with more passion, do the things he wants to do and not have regrets. I worry about my best guy, for many reasons, so I’m really hoping he’ll come out of his grief a stronger person.
Anyways, looking forward to the weekend. I’m having a girlfriends weekend, so it should be fun and relaxing. It’s always good to have some bonding time with your girlfriends.
This dessert was one of my favourite parts of my visit to the CNE…almost a month ago!!! Where did September go? Its been a crazy month, I’ve been sick for the last of it. And, not just with a cold. I had another bout with food poisoning, or maybe it was the stomach flu, on Friday. It was not pretty and I will not go into descriptive detail, to spare you all, but it was rough.
The terrible thing about being so ill on Friday is that my friend had planned a belated surprise for my birthday that night. I had an idea of what it was, a spa treatment, but wasn’t sure exactly what. Anyways, I left work pretty much a hour after I went in (half of that hour was spent in the bathroom), there was no way I could have made it through the day, and slept when I got home. I wasn’t sure I would be able to make it to my friend’s surprise and I felt so bad because I knew she would be dinged for the appointment. Thankfully, I felt better by the late afternoon and decided to go. I was feeling pretty frail, I had not eaten all day, and didn’t realize how frail I looked until my friend pointed out how pale I was when she saw me. She had never seen me like that before and I had never seen myself like that either. But, I guess when you’ve emptied your stomach numerous times, it shows. After a lovely facial though, I got my colour back.
Anyways, September was not as productive as I wanted it to be. I’m not behind, but I’m not as ahead as I’d like to be in the goals I’ve set. I have to repair this leak in my master bathroom. Its been leaking for a while (I hate to confess how long cause then you’ll all know how lazy I am) from the suite above me (thankfully into my bathtub), but I just haven’t put in a maintenance request to get it fixed. If I want to sell my place, I need to get it fixed. Moving is a pain in the ass, but now that I’m finally that much closer to what I really want to do, it’s worth all the inconvenience.
If l learned from anything that’s happened this year, doing and thinking are two very different things and I’d rather be inconvenienced and doing something than just thinking about it.
I can’t believe how fast time has flown by. The summer is almost over and fall weather will be setting in soon…hopefully not too soon even though I love the fall.
I know the summer is coming to a close when the CNE is on. And, like last year I’ll be going again this year. If it weren’t for my nephews, I don’t think I would be going at all. But, I know I’ll have fun….eating my way around the Ex, buying useless things (hopefully not too many of them this year). And, losing to all the games along the way. My favourite game at the Ex is the Fishing Game where you have this fishing rod with a magnet at the end and you put it into the water attempting to gather as many chips as possible that will reveal the prize you get. My other favourite game is hitting the gophers back into their hole…great way to take out your aggression, beating the crap out of gopher heads. Ahhhh…good times.
The past few months have been a roller coaster for me. I’m only now getting more focused on where I need to be. My condo should be ready to be put on the market in a few months. I still have some work I need to do, i.e. cleaning, and the garbage strike of 6 weeks was no help. Moving is stressful, for me at least. And, this time I refuse to be rushed – the last time I moved, across the country, it was not pretty. And, I only had 2 months to get it together – meaning, sell my place, pack everything and move. Its not something I want to repeat.
Anyways, I’m looking forward to the weekend and enjoying some time with my nephews. Even though most of the summer has been crazy, I’m starting to feel more focused and determined.
My friend’s wedding is this weekend. I’m looking forward to it. Its my first Italian wedding. I was thinking about that this week, about 90% of the weddings I’ve gone to in my lifetime have been of the Chinese banquet variety. I think I’ve only gone to three weddings that weren’t. That was a bit shocking to me because my closest friends aren’t all Asian.
Anyways, I’m the chauffeur of choice to take my friend to the church. So, I’m borrowing my mom’s car, which is a hell of a lot nicer than my own car. I like my little clunker, but I don’t think she’s got much left in her. Plus, my friend seemed a bit relieved when I said I’d use my mom’s car since she’s going away this weekend for a week in California. I think the relief was partly cause my car’s not the greatest, but also because she wasn’t sure her whole dress would fit in my little car. Too funny. Her dress is gorgeous though and not at all too much. Simple…exactly how weddings should be, in my opinion.
Speaking of dresses, hell, it was rough trying to find something to wear to this wedding. I had an outfit for the wedding ceremony, but needed something for the evening. I don’t like shopping, so that was the first hurdle to get through and then sorting through all the crappy things out there to find something decent was not an easy task. And, there was a lot of crap out there. I’m not super fussy about my clothes, I mean I’m super casual (maybe that’s the problem?) but seriously, everything I saw was yucky. But, I finally found something (to my relief) late last week and picked it up a few days ago. Its just a dressy top for the evening, I had to admit defeat and forget about wearing a one piece and just do the two piece. I think I’ll be more comfortable anyways. So, I’m set for the wedding and the reception. I like wearing two different outfits, its the Asian wedding influence on me.
My friend is very happy and I’m very happy for her. She found someone when she least expected to. That’s the best part about it, when she didn’t think she’d find someone, there he was.